Tuesday, December 28, 2010

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Dear Friends,
Greetings, Guess every one had probably heared of the saying "Failures are stepping stone of success". Once upon a time even I used to habitualy think of the power behind the saying. Actualy this repetition of it gives a kind of solace within but not the change from the situation, environment, we are in. What do I mean by this?, Very simple first of all in any emotional situation most of us are very much attached into the situation emotionaly without a way out. Ones thinking faculty is very much biased and prejudicial to think and rationalize only for the person in the problem. Very few can think on the other persons, situation point of view. Traditionaly people say this as "Narrow Minded" and " Broad Minded". I guess this is just once again a labeling of the approach which we all do it even now,

but let us just think "How was my thinking was during my last pressurised moment?"
Honestly answer this, mentaly might be good but jotting down will surely help you to grow and may you might become aware as many say in our seminars that when you ask me to write it down nothing comes out, it is all empty.

All these are patterns of mind for you to become aware of your own mind.
Now once again to the story, How was yours?, just read the list written down, one will find how much the thionking was onesided, always towards satisfying ones EGO, rationalizing all the previous moments with the person and mind thinking about it, and ther is no

Let go, thinking beyond the context, outside from other point of view, etc..

Now the question within you might be "How is this is related to the saying failure is the stepping stone of success?"

When one can think of this saying means the mind is moving from slef based biased and prejudicial pattern of thinking into finding a way out into the creative area. I am just reffering to the meta state that pattern that is running the pattern of thinking.

I always wonder how is that many NLP practitioners and trainers like there are many engineers who also say that they are engineers with an qaulification but we all know that only few can really excell in the way they implement effectively. NLP works in the meta level even for this ones internal level must evovle.

Right facilitation and guidance help one to achieve the desired output.

Regards,
Shihan C.J.Jeyachander,
www.basixinc.org .

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