Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Only Feedback

Dear Friends,
Greetings, Guess every one had probably heared of the saying "Failures are stepping stone of success". Once upon a time even I used to habitualy think of the power behind the saying. Actualy this repetition of it gives a kind of solace within but not the change from the situation, environment, we are in. What do I mean by this?, Very simple first of all in any emotional situation most of us are very much attached into the situation emotionaly without a way out. Ones thinking faculty is very much biased and prejudicial to think and rationalize only for the person in the problem. Very few can think on the other persons, situation point of view. Traditionaly people say this as "Narrow Minded" and " Broad Minded". I guess this is just once again a labeling of the approach which we all do it even now,

but let us just think "How was my thinking was during my last pressurised moment?"
Honestly answer this, mentaly might be good but jotting down will surely help you to grow and may you might become aware as many say in our seminars that when you ask me to write it down nothing comes out, it is all empty.

All these are patterns of mind for you to become aware of your own mind.
Now once again to the story, How was yours?, just read the list written down, one will find how much the thionking was onesided, always towards satisfying ones EGO, rationalizing all the previous moments with the person and mind thinking about it, and ther is no

Let go, thinking beyond the context, outside from other point of view, etc..

Now the question within you might be "How is this is related to the saying failure is the stepping stone of success?"

When one can think of this saying means the mind is moving from slef based biased and prejudicial pattern of thinking into finding a way out into the creative area. I am just reffering to the meta state that pattern that is running the pattern of thinking.

I always wonder how is that many NLP practitioners and trainers like there are many engineers who also say that they are engineers with an qaulification but we all know that only few can really excell in the way they implement effectively. NLP works in the meta level even for this ones internal level must evovle.

Right facilitation and guidance help one to achieve the desired output.

Regards,
Shihan C.J.Jeyachander,
www.basixinc.org .

Sunday, May 9, 2010

"God may forgive your sins but nervous system wont" - Alfred Korybki

Realizing the truth behind the above quote is profound for one to reflect and understand. Humans are what they carry in their store house the mind. Behaviour is the outcome or the reflection that is lying inside. Behaviour which is conscious is at some point based on either to reduce pain on to enhance pleasure. Behaviours which is unconscious is not under ones control because one is just got hijacked by themselves though these behaviours are directed either to reduce pain or to enhance pleasure. Mostly we are living in this kind of situation, which gives unproductive results and their by resulting failure.

Only feedbacks no failures the presupposition is very true for one to consider here and ever because humans are designed to learn from experience and this learning keeps them alive ever for them to recognize, react, act, proact, decide what kind of action , when by whom in what way can be materialized. Learning is a process and is based on the routine the person had been programed if the strategy is good then fine if not one needs to revise and search for an upgradation.

NLP - neurological level which sends the signals in the way of synaptical interface by chemical as well as ionic exchange determine your behavior. The faster the interface and communication within the neurons the faster the REFLEX ACTION is. Objective level of NLP help in creating a methdolical, systemized and procedural way of communication within and with other people to achieve the desired result through language. Language is for making the other person understand and most importantly what you want them to understand for your objective of your communication to be reached is definitely under your zone because one might understand differently as language has the possibility of showing multiple directions and even the maps of other person or the group is like that, It is our responsibility to direct our communication for the betterment.

Programming for success is designed through self awareness with openness to identify the strategies and programs in the system of human which is old and not required or with a kind of updation is the first step of understanding to learn from NLP.

NLP is a learning process as there is no end for this world to evolve then one might realize before hand how you may start taking reponsibility of making the life in the way you may design it. Creator is what you are but before that sooner you might get to understand NLP by learning with the right team to maintain the QUALITY and STANDARD of your life that you want to be standing out and unique.

NLP the Way - Shihan C.J.Jeyachander C.Ht., CMT NLP., Authorized Master Trainer NFNLP(USA)

Friday, March 12, 2010

NLP - The Way of Life

Long way since thought of sharing about the mind boggling technologies which had made a radical changes in my life as well as in others. Amazing was the way which had taken me to the level which is just nothing can describe though may the efforts will certainly make us understand the technology which is for the same this place is about. Though many techniques been evolved in the past for working with our mind effectively few had given results in certain areas, few others in combination had worked well for the person who is an expert most of the time the founder.

The technology which we will be considering here is some thing which is not a technique but a WAY OF LIFE.

NLP - Neuro Linguistic Programing, as in our seminars and workshops by the end many way of representing NLP had been done by the people few are here.

No Limit People
New Learning Process

This place is dedicated extensively to NLP its history, philosophy, concepts, theories, models, techniques and many more exiting things.

We need every one here to share their learnings, understanding and experience as a committed NLPer.

Regards,
Shihan C.J.J.C