DO YOU WANT TO MAKE YOUR LIFE EASY & EFFECTIVE?

EASY & EFFECTIVE

Everyone including me want our life to be EASY and EFFECTIVE. when I said everyone I mean it. In life all of us want things to be simple but most of the time we find things are complex. Here "THINGS" can be situations, issues, challenges which includes people whom we face while we are moving towards achieving our GOALS.

I was recently interacting with the Marketing head of an organization who are into automobile component industry. As we were discussing he was saying that there are many things to handle and lot of expectations of people need to be fulfilled. I could sense a kind of pressure going on in him, when I probed he said that it is not easy to handle the situations as many variables come in between. When I asked him about the goals and plans which they work on towards achieving their goals . He was saying that, "yes, we do work on it but before we accomplish our assignments that are currently in hand, it becomes tough for us as we need to work on other assignments that demands our attention as well, so we handle multiple assignments and projects parallely." As we discussed ahead, he was sharing how it is essential and important to handle emergency situation. I asked him so what he do during those time? He said, "we give more importance to solve the emergency situation in hand and as we come down to the one that we have planned we would have lost considerable time and now this assignment which should have completed 80%  become urgent"

This is called CRISIS MANAGEMENT which happen most of the time.

What we want? and as a manager especially?

Every one want to be a manager.

Every other manager want to be effective.

Every other manager want to fulfill their goals set and do more than that.

Every other manager want to do something creative.

Every other manager want to bring something new in their team.

Every other manager want to GROW to reach higher level.

and more...

But when you really ask them or if you are one then you will find out that it is tough and you need to put lot of effort in realizing the above wants.

So how your life will be if you can accomplish things with ease and you are effective in doing what you do?

I am sure you in what ever capacity want it. Let us see how to make our life EASY and EFFECTIVE.

If you want me to ask you few questions here they are.

Do you manage task? or Do you manage situation? or Do you manage people?

If your answer is "Task" then your life is almost running around behind every other task. what it mean is  that you will be only behind completing task. There will be no time for anyother thing in your life in terms of personal and professional enrichment, satisfaction, growth etc. You might end up as a TASK master.

If you had answered as "Situation" then you will be a "Crisis Master" in the sense that handling situations as and when it arise. And busy all the time handling situations that arise out towards accomplishing your objective.

When I said task master, crises master these managers involve themselves in their tasks and situations only, this is because our action follows where we focus our thoughts. In both case the objective is task and situation and not more than that. managers want accomplishment of  their task and handle their situations easily as well as effectively. which they might achieve upto certain extent not BEYOND THAT.

What does this mean?

you will understand when we can look into the answer for  third question. If you had answered as "PEOPLE" then this involves delegation of task and trusting them that they can handle their task better. When your task and situation been handled by your PEOPLE who are in executing then your GOALS will be achieved automatically.

Hope you are now clear what I meant. As a manager our job is to manage people of our attitudes, skills and knowledge when we do this then RESULTS happen. That is our team members start managing their task and handle everyother situation that arise easily and effectively.

Our life become EASY  and we become EFFECTIVE.

Where ever you are and what ever you are doing now, I invite you to take your time in developing your skills towards managing people.

If in the process you might need coaching or mentorship individually or  as a team you are always welcome to call me or mail me.

Let us live our life EASILY and EFFECTIVELY.

NLP Outcomes Vs benefits

Anything on earth that you want to have and have with you now had fulfilled your criteria’s and expectations that you had from within, similarly the benefits can also be known in terms of NLP model as how it is widely known for so long with the multitude of successful personalities who had been aware of the patterns of NLP models and techniques that keep them to be the best in whatever they are doing say it as outcome not just an outcome but WELL FORMED OUTCOMES that you derive out of anything that you do. NLP is a technology to achieve these WELL FORMED OUTCOMES.

What does this mean how different is it from benefits?

Benefits assign a kind of value that any other programs wants to offer by the end of the course and which may not be the case most of the time as mostly these programs, course is more on WHY and WHAT and not on HOW. As anyone who just at a minimum practices the NLP techniques not even knowing logic behind these techniques like driving a car does not need a mandatory criteria to know and understand the complete engineering know how, but while you are driving all the technology that is car is based is on the engineering science providing the artistic comforts that somewhere we had been used to saying as one benefit along with some other benefits that you enjoy while driving like speed, economy, fuel efficiency, capacity etc been seen, heard and felt by our senses is only because of your experience of using your car as the benefits manifested in applying the NLP techniques for almost all who had used it in the way it is.

Outcome is well defined primarily and you clarify

What you want?
When you want it?
Where you want it?
With whom you will have it?
What resources you have?
What resources you need?

The above definitely determine your outcomes that you always desired to have, is what NLP process empowers you to have.

When one is speaking about outcomes then anyone is aware that anything that you do is based on an outcome and NLP is where you realize that it is a desired outcome that you will have. Outcomes may be from within you in the way you think, act and behave. Thoughts are essential for one to do some action but for the actions that lead you to a successful behavior need a set of systematic actions that can lead you to the desired outcome is what we as NLP ers are speaking about. As you think you agree that thinking is a process and it is automatic and if you are thinking while you are reading in the same way then it may not be so because NLP is the study of the structure of subjective experience.

As it is common when as a child you thought how difficult was to write and read a sentence now you are absolutely confident that it can be learned in the way you and others had learned it as you experience now in reading continuously till here and comprehending what you read is a definite proof of what we are speaking about. Now as NLP models make you aware of the structure of your thoughts, thought patterns and the procedures and strategies behind these thoughts, patterns and procedures. Like any programmer knows that there is a structure behind all program codes and a problem generated by the software has a structure the programmer trouble shoots it to identify the bug and does the necessary changes for the smooth running of the software by the client. NLP makes you identify and trouble shoot the challenging thoughts, strategies, routines and procedure deep in your mind ware and to reprogram it effectively by your own self, taking complete responsibility for the change created by you in achieving the desired action by constantly reprogramming continuously till the outcome is achieved.

By the way NLP is like an open source and you can make it work in the way you want to as a keyboard generates tunes based on the one who plays it. It is like clay as one grows form child to adult, one know what outcome one need from the clay and makes the model out of it. Everyone within a short time had realized the changes deep inside their mind as they are aware of how important their mind is for them and most importantly their proficiency as a wizard in using their own brain for success.

NLP, the best communication model as people say that communication is to understand the other person, their model of representation of world their beliefs and values that from the background is responsible in the model of representation. Communication as you are aware has a monologue and a dialogue. In case of monologue the speaker keep on speaking without even considering what the other person want, need, is thinking about etc thus the speech is considered monologue. In case of dialogue as the word connotes where there is mutual sharing (“dia” means two, “mono” means one) of information for better understanding, where there is participation. All expert communicators do make their communication relevant to others by making others involve. NLP bring ones awareness of others perception as well as their own so that the level, quality of communication increases in a 360 degree angle creating direction in realizing desired results.

NLP as experts have experienced is an experience in the process of modeling the successful actions, behaviors of successful achievers. If you want some skill, behavior that you see, hear and feel that you lack and you want it to achieve your outcome then by the process of NLP modeling it is easy that you model the strategies like thinking, deciding, spelling, playing, leading, selling, communicating, listening, reading, writing etc. behaviors that is the combination of the way you think and act for achieving the outcome easily, quickly and naturally.

One question that any intelligent person who had not had experienced NLP has is this
Is there not successful people and personalities who had achieved success without NLP?
Yes, few and what we are is doing is unconsciously we are trying to learn by reading their books, listening to their talks, attending to workshops, seminars etc without knowing

How they do what they have done or doing?
When they do it?
What kind of thoughts they think before doing what they do?
How they think?
What kind of decisions they take in different kind of situations that leads them to achieve their success?
How to do in the way they have done or doing? Etc.

If one knows the answers for the above then it is just a cake walk of doing what your model (role model) did/ does isn’t it? Guess.

NLP process does not give only answers for the above but also actually doing it. We call this as MODELLING EXCELLENCE. This empowers you to create your benchmark in whatever you do and break it. Enhances your performance to deliver your complete each time you do something. You take complete control of destabilizing, interrupting, disturbing emotions. You become charismatic where ever and with who ever you are as your power of influence and persuade had increased you becoming a leader.

Finally NLP is process oriented we are not bothered about “WHY” of anything from your past because you are what you are NLP propels you to achieve your outcomes. NLP is a systematic way of understanding your mind, working with your mind it is a manual for your mind.

God may forgive your sins but your nervous system won’t – Alfred Korybzky. NLP the technology to change had changed billions for past four and a half decades and is continuing. Every one change easily and to manifest desires achieve success is simple and much faster beyond our imagination with NLP as there are no failures only FEEDBACK.

Shihan C.J.Jeyachander

www.basixinc.org .

"God may forgive your sins but nervous system wont" - Alfred Korybki

Realizing the truth behind the above quote is profound for one to reflect and understand. Humans are what they carry in their store house the mind. Behaviour is the outcome or the reflection that is lying inside. Behaviour which is conscious is at some point based on either to reduce pain on to enhance pleasure. Behaviours which is unconscious is not under ones control because one is just got hijacked by themselves though these behaviours are directed either to reduce pain or to enhance pleasure. Mostly we are living in this kind of situation, which gives unproductive results and their by resulting failure.

Only feedbacks no failures the presupposition is very true for one to consider here and ever because humans are designed to learn from experience and this learning keeps them alive ever for them to recognize, react, act, proact, decide what kind of action , when by whom in what way can be materialized. Learning is a process and is based on the routine the person had been programed if the strategy is good then fine if not one needs to revise and search for an upgradation.

NLP - neurological level which sends the signals in the way of synaptical interface by chemical as well as ionic exchange determine your behavior. The faster the interface and communication within the neurons the faster the REFLEX ACTION is. Objective level of NLP help in creating a methdolical, systemized and procedural way of communication within and with other people to achieve the desired result through language. Language is for making the other person understand and most importantly what you want them to understand for your objective of your communication to be reached is definitely under your zone because one might understand differently as language has the possibility of showing multiple directions and even the maps of other person or the group is like that, It is our responsibility to direct our communication for the betterment.

Programming for success is designed through self awareness with openness to identify the strategies and programs in the system of human which is old and not required or with a kind of updation is the first step of understanding to learn from NLP.

NLP is a learning process as there is no end for this world to evolve then one might realize before hand how you may start taking reponsibility of making the life in the way you may design it. Creator is what you are but before that sooner you might get to understand NLP by learning with the right team to maintain the QUALITY and STANDARD of your life that you want to be standing out and unique.

NLP the Way - Shihan C.J.Jeyachander C.Ht., CMT NLP., Authorized Master Trainer NFNLP(USA)