NLP Outcomes Vs benefits
Anything on earth that you want to have and have with you now had fulfilled your criteria’s and expectations that you had from within, similarly the benefits can also be known in terms of NLP model as how it is widely known for so long with the multitude of successful personalities who had been aware of the patterns of NLP models and techniques that keep them to be the best in whatever they are doing say it as outcome not just an outcome but WELL FORMED OUTCOMES that you derive out of anything that you do. NLP is a technology to achieve these WELL FORMED OUTCOMES.
Anything on earth that you want to have and have with you now had fulfilled your criteria’s and expectations that you had from within, similarly the benefits can also be known in terms of NLP model as how it is widely known for so long with the multitude of successful personalities who had been aware of the patterns of NLP models and techniques that keep them to be the best in whatever they are doing say it as outcome not just an outcome but WELL FORMED OUTCOMES that you derive out of anything that you do. NLP is a technology to achieve these WELL FORMED OUTCOMES.
What does this mean how different is it from benefits?
Benefits assign a kind of value that any other programs wants to offer by the end of the course and which may not be the case most of the time as mostly these programs, course is more on WHY and WHAT and not on HOW. As anyone who just at a minimum practices the NLP techniques not even knowing logic behind these techniques like driving a car does not need a mandatory criteria to know and understand the complete engineering know how, but while you are driving all the technology that is car is based is on the engineering science providing the artistic comforts that somewhere we had been used to saying as one benefit along with some other benefits that you enjoy while driving like speed, economy, fuel efficiency, capacity etc been seen, heard and felt by our senses is only because of your experience of using your car as the benefits manifested in applying the NLP techniques for almost all who had used it in the way it is.
Benefits assign a kind of value that any other programs wants to offer by the end of the course and which may not be the case most of the time as mostly these programs, course is more on WHY and WHAT and not on HOW. As anyone who just at a minimum practices the NLP techniques not even knowing logic behind these techniques like driving a car does not need a mandatory criteria to know and understand the complete engineering know how, but while you are driving all the technology that is car is based is on the engineering science providing the artistic comforts that somewhere we had been used to saying as one benefit along with some other benefits that you enjoy while driving like speed, economy, fuel efficiency, capacity etc been seen, heard and felt by our senses is only because of your experience of using your car as the benefits manifested in applying the NLP techniques for almost all who had used it in the way it is.
Outcome is well defined primarily and you clarify
What you want?
When you want it?
Where you want it?
With whom you will have it?
What resources you have?
What resources you need?
When you want it?
Where you want it?
With whom you will have it?
What resources you have?
What resources you need?
The above definitely determine your outcomes that you always desired to have, is what NLP process empowers you to have.
When one is speaking about outcomes then anyone is aware that anything that you do is based on an outcome and NLP is where you realize that it is a desired outcome that you will have. Outcomes may be from within you in the way you think, act and behave. Thoughts are essential for one to do some action but for the actions that lead you to a successful behavior need a set of systematic actions that can lead you to the desired outcome is what we as NLP ers are speaking about. As you think you agree that thinking is a process and it is automatic and if you are thinking while you are reading in the same way then it may not be so because NLP is the study of the structure of subjective experience.
As it is common when as a child you thought how difficult was to write and read a sentence now you are absolutely confident that it can be learned in the way you and others had learned it as you experience now in reading continuously till here and comprehending what you read is a definite proof of what we are speaking about. Now as NLP models make you aware of the structure of your thoughts, thought patterns and the procedures and strategies behind these thoughts, patterns and procedures. Like any programmer knows that there is a structure behind all program codes and a problem generated by the software has a structure the programmer trouble shoots it to identify the bug and does the necessary changes for the smooth running of the software by the client. NLP makes you identify and trouble shoot the challenging thoughts, strategies, routines and procedure deep in your mind ware and to reprogram it effectively by your own self, taking complete responsibility for the change created by you in achieving the desired action by constantly reprogramming continuously till the outcome is achieved.
By the way NLP is like an open source and you can make it work in the way you want to as a keyboard generates tunes based on the one who plays it. It is like clay as one grows form child to adult, one know what outcome one need from the clay and makes the model out of it. Everyone within a short time had realized the changes deep inside their mind as they are aware of how important their mind is for them and most importantly their proficiency as a wizard in using their own brain for success.
NLP, the best communication model as people say that communication is to understand the other person, their model of representation of world their beliefs and values that from the background is responsible in the model of representation. Communication as you are aware has a monologue and a dialogue. In case of monologue the speaker keep on speaking without even considering what the other person want, need, is thinking about etc thus the speech is considered monologue. In case of dialogue as the word connotes where there is mutual sharing (“dia” means two, “mono” means one) of information for better understanding, where there is participation. All expert communicators do make their communication relevant to others by making others involve. NLP bring ones awareness of others perception as well as their own so that the level, quality of communication increases in a 360 degree angle creating direction in realizing desired results.
NLP as experts have experienced is an experience in the process of modeling the successful actions, behaviors of successful achievers. If you want some skill, behavior that you see, hear and feel that you lack and you want it to achieve your outcome then by the process of NLP modeling it is easy that you model the strategies like thinking, deciding, spelling, playing, leading, selling, communicating, listening, reading, writing etc. behaviors that is the combination of the way you think and act for achieving the outcome easily, quickly and naturally.
One question that any intelligent person who had not had experienced NLP has is this
Is there not successful people and personalities who had achieved success without NLP?
Yes, few and what we are is doing is unconsciously we are trying to learn by reading their books, listening to their talks, attending to workshops, seminars etc without knowing
Is there not successful people and personalities who had achieved success without NLP?
Yes, few and what we are is doing is unconsciously we are trying to learn by reading their books, listening to their talks, attending to workshops, seminars etc without knowing
How they do what they have done or doing?
When they do it?
What kind of thoughts they think before doing what they do?
How they think?
What kind of decisions they take in different kind of situations that leads them to achieve their success?
How to do in the way they have done or doing? Etc.
When they do it?
What kind of thoughts they think before doing what they do?
How they think?
What kind of decisions they take in different kind of situations that leads them to achieve their success?
How to do in the way they have done or doing? Etc.
If one knows the answers for the above then it is just a cake walk of doing what your model (role model) did/ does isn’t it? Guess.
NLP process does not give only answers for the above but also actually doing it. We call this as MODELLING EXCELLENCE. This empowers you to create your benchmark in whatever you do and break it. Enhances your performance to deliver your complete each time you do something. You take complete control of destabilizing, interrupting, disturbing emotions. You become charismatic where ever and with who ever you are as your power of influence and persuade had increased you becoming a leader.
Finally NLP is process oriented we are not bothered about “WHY” of anything from your past because you are what you are NLP propels you to achieve your outcomes. NLP is a systematic way of understanding your mind, working with your mind it is a manual for your mind.
God may forgive your sins but your nervous system won’t – Alfred Korybzky. NLP the technology to change had changed billions for past four and a half decades and is continuing. Every one change easily and to manifest desires achieve success is simple and much faster beyond our imagination with NLP as there are no failures only FEEDBACK.
Shihan C.J.Jeyachander
